Wednesday, July 3, 2024

✨The Life Changing Magic of Saying “No”✨

 

Are you struggling to stay consistent with running? Feel like something always pops up when you have a scheduled run or cross training plans? 

Allow me to introduce you to ✨The Life Changing Magic of Saying “No”✨ 

Let’s review 3 reasons you say “Yes” when you should say “No”, plus learn mindset shifts that will help you stop wasting time and start making progress in running, as well as all other areas of your life.


1. "I can do it all."

Yes, you have infinite potential but you also only have 24 hours in a day. This means you need to manage your time wisely and give priority to the people and things that are most important to you.  


2. "I don’t want to disappoint my friends."

Real friends, the people who matter and you should keep in your life, want you to achieve your goals. Communicate clearly to them how they can support you. By doing so, you create space for them to express what they need too. Hooray for stronger relationships!


3. "No one will like me."

Do you even like yourself? If not, that’s okay. It’s a journey and let’s start now! Show yourself love by respecting and prioritizing the things that are important to you. People are attracted to and respect those who respect themselves. ❤️


Olivia Lovejoy is your run bestie who shares running tips, training plans and motivation online and offers one-on-one run coaching to help new runners achieve their goals. Based in Hastings on Hudson, NY but just a click and scroll away: Instagram | YouTube | Run with me | Email me | Subscribe to my email newsletter


Monday, July 1, 2024

Read this if you struggle with being consistent as a runner

Here are some tips for developing consistency.

Set SMART goals. SMART goals are

Specific: The goal is clearly stated so that anyone can understand what will be done and who will do it.

Measurable: A way to measure success is determined.

Achievable: The goal is realistic and possible to complete within the set time frame.

Relevant: The goal aligns with values and long-term goals and objectives.

Time-bound: The goal is set within an appropriate time frame to create a sense of urgency.

Presently, my goal is to maintain a level of fitness where it would be easy for me to comfortably complete a half-marathon on any given day. Presently, the way I accomplish this is by cross-training at least 3x/week (usually barre3 classes) and running at least 2x/wk (minimum 8 miles/wk). Honestly, I usually end up working out way more than that but I like to keep the bar low and achievable for my mental health and for balance because realistically not every day is going to be a two workout day, but if I don't do at least the minimum that's a problem. All the extra workouts are a bonus! Since I have a maintenance goal, I sign up for 2 halfs a year to see if I'm hitting the mark or need to adjust my training plan. 


Be passionate.

Attach a meaningful purpose to your training: to be fit enough to enjoy playing with your kids, to raise money for a charity that supports a cause you care deeply about. I found myself most motivated when I ran the 2023 NYC Marathon to raise money for the Girls on the Run Hudson Valley scholarship fund. 


Create a routine.

This helps take the burden of decision making out of how you do things on a day-to-day basis because you've planned it out ahead of time. The more details and accountability you can add to the routine the better. Going to work is an example of a routine. I've recently started running with Bad Ass Run Krew on Sundays and then coming home to enjoy a big breakfast with my husband. That's a routine too! 


Reward yourself.

A reward could be: stream a movie, wear your "nice" clothes, take time to play a game, do a hobby or otherwise use something fun that you already own but don't usually make time for, take a break outside and bask in the sun, call a supportive loved one or someone you want to encourage and tell them about your accomplishment. (Note: Please don't use food as a reward. It's not a healthy way to relate to eating, IMHO.)  Absolutely, DO NOT REWARD YOURSELF IF YOU HAVEN'T BEEN CONSISTENT. No pity parties! Seek encouragement or solutions and give yourself a second chance to take action instead! 


Track your progress.

You can record your training in a journal, on your calendar, an app like Strava, and/or your wearable device's app. I wear this Garmin and use the Garmin Connect app to record and review my training.


Get support. 

Surround yourself with people and content that support your goals. Make friends in real life and online who are also into running and value meeting running goals. Follow me on Instagram. Join a running club. Read magazines about running, like Runner's World. You can even listen to and be inspired by Audible books written by or about runners while you run. (Have you read Running While Black yet?)


Manage your time.

There is nothing more important for living a fulfilling life than having self-trust. Running is a great opportunity to develop that. Literally do what you said you were going to do, when you said you were going to do it. Do not allow other things to get in the way! Your goals and your dreams matter. You matter. 

You can periodically re-access your goals and the approach you're taking to get there. But the day of, the hour of, the moment when you're supposed to be doing something is absolutely not the time to do that! Trust that you knew what you were doing when you made the plan. Trust that you’ll be able to learn from the process and continue to improve. 

Olivia Lovejoy is your run bestie who shares running tips, training plans and motivation online and offers one-on-one run coaching to help new runners achieve their goals. Based in Hastings on Hudson, NY but just a click and scroll away: Instagram | YouTube | Run with me | Email me | Subscribe to my email newsletter


Tuesday, June 25, 2024

Do you make these 5 common running mistakes?

 


5 Mistakes New Runners Make👇🏿

❌ Wearing random sneakers you’ve used for years.

❌ Skipping warm up and cool down.

❌ Starting off with a fast pace.

❌ Stop running when you’re uncomfortable.

❌ Deciding that you’re going to run every day— then totally giving up when you can’t maintain that schedule.

✅ Wear RUNNING shoes that are fitted for you feet and support for your specific needs. Change those shoes every 500 miles minimum. You can wear a Garmin GPS watch to keep track of your mileage. 

✅ Begin with a short, simple warm up and end with a cool down to prevent injury. (I have IG reels of both. ❤️🎬)

✅ Start off slowly to prevent early fatigue and burn out.

✅ Pain is one thing but discomfort is another. It’s OK to be uncomfortable. You can always slow down and focus on your breath. You don’t need to stop. Walking is an option. You can also learn a lot from being uncomfortable so don’t fear it. Be open to it. You are safe. You are in control.

✅ I think doing anything every day besides eating, brushing your teeth, and praying is madness, but my options aside… You need rest days to allow your muscles to repair and grow stronger.

Have you done any of these things? What other mistakes would you add to the list?

Olivia Lovejoy is your run bestie who shares running tips, training plans and motivation online and offers one-on-one run coaching to help new runners achieve their goals. Based in Hastings on Hudson, NY but just a click and scroll away: Instagram | YouTube | Run with me | Email me | Subscribe to my email newsletter

Tuesday, June 18, 2024

Easy 3-Minute Post-Run Stretch


🚫🙈 Don’t watch this reel if you enjoy being sore the day after a run.

If you have time to run, you have time to stretch. No excuses! One way to make sure you don’t forget to stretch is by combining it with the ritual of drinking your post-run water/ nuun hydration / whatever. Another trick I have is I don’t allow myself to take off my sweaty bra until I’ve done these stretches. It sounds cruel but that always keeps me from forgetting. 😉

Do this super easy 3 minute stretch routine after any run:

Quad (front of your thighs) stretch: Stand on your right leg with a soft bend to the knee. Grab your left foot behind you in your left palm. Flex your left foot and push it into your hand. Level your hips. Breathe. Hold. Pull your left knee back and down so that it gets closer to the right knee/ standing leg. You can hold onto something to go deeper or to support your balance. Repeat on the other side.

Hip-Opening Figure 4 Stretch:
Cross your left ankle over your right knee. Soft bend to your right knee. Level your hips. Belly button toward your spine. Push your booty back.
Breathe. Hold. You can lift up and down if you’d like. You can hold onto something to go deeper or to support your balance. Repeat on the other side.

Hamstring (back of your thighs) stretch: With a soft bend to your right knee, stick out your left foot about a foot’s distance from your right foot. Belly button toward your spine. Push your booty back. Breathe. Hold. Repeat on the other side.

Shoulders and triceps (back of arms) stretch: Roll your shoulders wide and down your back. With your chest open, reach behind yourself to grab opposite hands. Breathe. Hold. Repeat on the other side/ Alternate which hand is reaching up vs pulling down.

Morning stretch: Reach your arms up really high like you’re trying to reach the stars. Lean to each side.

Now do whatever else you need to do to feel good. 😀 Neck rolls and shoulder shrugs are nice. So are noodle arms/ swinging your arms without any resistance around your body.

Drop a 🌈 in the comments if you promise to stretch after your next run.

Olivia Lovejoy is your run bestie who shares running tips, training plans and motivation online and offers one-on-one run coaching to help new runners achieve their goals. Based in Hastings on Hudson, NY but just a click and scroll away: Instagram | YouTube | Run with me | Email me | Subscribe to my email newsletter

Monday, June 17, 2024

Do this simple running warm up

Ever feel like you’re going to die during the first 10 minutes of your run? ☠️ Do this 3 minute warm up first to begin your run feeling strong and confident. 😎 

Watch the reel on Instagram. 

Before you start: Do a breathing warm up. Inhale and exhale only through your nose for 2-5 minutes. (Watch my reel on How to Breathe When You Run for more details.)

OK, now do these things for about 20-30 seconds each:
Arm circles backwards (palms back)
Arm circles forward (palms forward)
Give yourself a hug 🤗
Shoulder shrugs forward and back
Neck rolls in each direction
Leg swings across your body
Leg swings back and forth
High knees
Kick your butt 🍑
…and whatever else you need to feel good.

Happy running besties! LMK in the comments if you try this.👇🏿

Olivia Lovejoy is your run bestie who shares running tips, training plans and motivation online and offers one-on-one run coaching to help new runners achieve their goals. Based in Hastings on Hudson, NY but just a click and scroll away: Instagram | YouTube | Run with me | Email me | Subscribe to my email newsletter

Sunday, June 16, 2024

How to Breathe When You Run

3️⃣ things you should pay attention to if you don’t want to feel like you’re dying when you run are:


1. Warm up your diaphragm. It is a muscle too. Inhale through your nose and exhale through your nose for 2-5 minutes. You can do this while you get dressed for your run or while walking to your run dest
ination.


Do this BEFORE you do the rest of your warm up. Yes, you need to do a full body warm-up before every run. That’s going to make a huge difference for your ease when it’s time to actually start running.

2. Use good posture for maximum airflow into your body. Keep your chest open. Keep your shoulders wide and relaxed down your back. Make sure you’re not hunched over. Drop your arms and let them swing— somewhat controlled, but absolutely comfortable—at your waist. Be easy. 😎

3. Start off slow. 🐌 So slow it’s embarrassing and boring. Definitely so slow that you could have a thoughtful conversation. Gradually increase your pace as your breath and your body warm up together.

Got it? Proper warm up. Posture. Pace. Pay attention to these things to keep breathing easy while you run. 😀

Tip: You can practice warming up your diaphragm and using good posture when you’re not running. I practice breathing all the time. It’s so relaxing!

Watch my How to Breathe When You Run reel on Instagram.  Leave any questions or comments about breathing and running below. ❤️

Olivia Lovejoy is your run bestie who shares running tips, training plans and motivation online and offers one-on-one run coaching to help new runners achieve their goals. Based in Hastings on Hudson, NY but just a click and scroll away: Instagram | YouTube | Run with me | Email me | Subscribe to my email newsletter

Monday, June 3, 2024

Your Calendar + Your Workouts = Success!


If you’re trying to get in the habit of running consistently, you absolutely need to schedule it on your calendar. 🗓️

Start with running 2-3 days a week. Doing something new only once a week feels awkward every time and it’s hard to get momentum and progress. Every day is unrealistic and difficult to sustain in the long term. You will burn out once the novelty wears off.

Choose times where you can block off a full hour. This will give you time to run/walk for 30-40 minutes, plus have 20 min to warm up, cool down/stretch, and take a quick shower (or towel off and change clothes).

Be super respectful of yourself and your existing commitments when you plan this. Give yourself grace by picking a frequency and times that would be easy for you with very minor adjustments.

❌ Don’t say you’re going to get up at 4am and run before work if you are 100% not a morning person.
✅ Do see if you can find extra time and energy by cutting out activities that don’t support your goals— like going to Happy Hour after work or binging Netflix.

Put the chosen times on your calendar or whenever you keep track of your schedule/ appointments. This will eliminate decision fatigue throughout the week of figuring out how to fit in time to run. It will give you something to look forward to. It will also give you opportunity to make an easy, and clear choice to either commit to your goals or to blow them off.

Yes, life happens and things pop up so you can shimmy around the time as needed. But there’s a big difference between moving around appointments on your calendar and literally not having anything on it but expecting things to get done by coincidence. If you’re not a planner, this is a great way to ease into the habit of planning. (I swear, plans make the impossible possible!)

When are you running this week?

Olivia Lovejoy is your run bestie who shares running tips, training plans and motivation online and offers one-on-one run coaching to help new runners achieve their goals. Based in Hastings on Hudson, NY but just a click and scroll away: Instagram | YouTube | Run with me | Email me | Subscribe to my email newsletter

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